About me?

Who Am I and What Do I Offer You?

Would you believe if I told you that one day I realized I have been coaching people since I was 18 years old?!!!
I could not believe it myself when I finally realized it and that helped shape my decision to make it my profession.

My name is Ruthi-Star Sela. I am a university graduate. I hold a Master’s degree in Therapeutic Counseling and am also a graduate of the Coach Training Alliance as well as a Reiki Master. I have also studied Emotional Intelligence with Dr. Laura Belsten, an education that I constantly implement in my work.
But more importantly, I am still a student of LIFE!!

Ruthi-Star Sela
Personal, Realtionship & Life Coach

As a mature woman in her mid 50’s, but young at heart, I have done it all. I have been there before, and I have learned to appreciate the wisdom that comes with age and experience and am now eager to share it with people.

When I look back at my life I know that I have lived it to the fullest in most areas and would like to help others do the same.

I have learned that at each stage of my life I will need to stop and assess my situation, in a very truthful way, in order to have a chance at a fuller, happier life.
I have done just that; stopped and assessed my life! Sometimes the results were quite drastic but at the end of the day I can look in the mirror and be happy and satisfied with my decisions and choices.
The process enabled me to meet and have a true meaningful relationship with my husband, build a wonderful family life, choose my friends, my career, my interests in life, and find my true purpose and path.

My clients are singles, couples, families with children - the whole range. Couple's counseling is one of my areas of expertise. It is so rewarding to see the fast and drastic results with couples who come in at the verge of a break up and leave with a renewed enthusiasm and hope (see Testimonial section).

People have told me that I help them find focus, clarity and direction and, therefore, happiness.
As a coach, I will support you in assessing your life, help you become emotionally- balanced and free of “past baggage”, help you become more creative and most of all, help you find the courage to do it all.

My favorite quote from Albert Schweitzer says “Success is not the key to happiness, happiness is the key to success. If you love what you are doing you will be successful”.
I live by this message… hence my success!! Let me help you do the same for yourself.

My message to you is: Do not be afraid of change-embrace it and go with it!

Take the first step and contact me to set up your free sample session.

“Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one’s courage”
(Anais Nin)